4 Tips to Help Your Baby Sleep Better in 2019
“What should be done eventually must be done immediately.”
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard parents tell me, “I just don’t think he’s ready for sleep training yet.” or, “I know it’s a bad habit, but it’s working for the time being. I’ll wean him off of it soon.”
Soon, meaning, “In the meantime, I’ll just keep doing things I know are short-term solutions which will likely cause us problems down the road.”
Don’t misunderstand my intentions here. I’m not trying to shame anyone for doing what they feel they have to in order to keep the peace in their family, however temporarily. I am just as guilty as anyone of putting band-aids on things in order to hold everything together until I could deal with the bigger issue. How could anyone ever cope if we had to deal with every issue the moment it came up?
That being said, the longer you wait to implement healthy sleep habits, the harder the transition can become. Everyone is protective around their sleep environment. I know if someone asked me to totally change up the way I’ve been sleeping for the past 30 years, I’d have a big problem. While it’s never too late to instill healthy, independent sleep habits, the best time to make these positive changes is TODAY! Unsure of where to start? Here are 4 tips to help you get started tonight!
1. Hello Darkness, My Old Friend
Light, natural or artificial, sends a message to our brains that it’s daytime and not time to sleep. Melatonin production is triggered by darkness, so start turning down the lights an hour before you plan to put baby down. (Especially electronic screens, which emit a blue light that is particularly detrimental to baby’s shut-down process.)
For babies who wake up early or are more sensitive to light, I’d recommend investing in some blackout blinds. I’ve had many parents tell me it’s the best money they ever spent (in addition to a sleep coach that is!) I’ve got my favorites listed, here!
2. Turn Down the Heat
New parents can be obsessive over their babies’ comfort, and making sure they’re warm enough. Warmth is such a basic instinct that people tend to overdo it. Babies, like their grownup counterparts, sleep best when they’re warm and snuggly inside of a cool environment. A warm nighttime onesie and a cool nursery, somewhere around 65°F to 72°F (18°C – 21°C) is the best way to ensure that baby remains comfortable through the night. If you’re concerned about baby being too cool, a sleep sack (aka wearable blanket) can be a helpful tool beyond just keeping your little one warm.
3. Keep it Boring
I know we all love the look of a cute, elegant mobile hanging over baby’s crib, or the sounds of the little faux-aquarium with those plastic light-up fish. But even though they may seem soothing to us, they can be a real source of fascination for your little one – which is great…just not when they’re trying to sleep! To a baby, they can be the equivalent of a big-budget action movie, so keep visual stimulation away from the crib.
The only products that I do recommend include a white noise machine which can help to block out any outside sounds that might jar baby into waking up, and – if you absolutely must – an amber or yellow-colored night-light which can keep toddlers from getting spooked by the darkness. Other than that, the more boring your child’s bedroom is, the better they’ll sleep.
4. Be Predictable
A well-planned, consistent bedtime routine is conducive to a good night’s sleep for all ages but particularly for babies. Once their bodies and brains start to recognize the signals that indicate an upcoming bedtime, they will start preparing to wrap up for the evening as soon as that first step begins. Their energy levels will start to wind down, melatonin production will kick in, and muscles will start to relax. By the time you’re giving them a goodnight kiss, their system should be all set for a long, restorative sleep.
Teaching your child great sleep skills isn’t a one-night operation. It takes some time, a lot of repetition, and plenty of discipline and diligence on the part of you, the parents. For those of you who are desperate for just a little bit of relief, these tips may help you and your little one get a few more hours of shut-eye, starting tonight.
And, as always, if you’d like some more support, you know where to find me!
If you’re exhausted, totally overwhelmed by your child’s sleep habits, or looking for answers to the sleep questions that keep you up at night (literally), then you’ve come to the right place. I’m Jamie, founder of Oh Baby Consulting, and my goal is to help your family get the sleep you need to not just survive, but thrive!